Don’t Look Back

Last night we watched one of our favorite movies of all time, Spirited Away. There’s an awesome paranormal love story woven in to the adventure, and the growth of the main character is done to perfection. However, I noticed near the end that Chihiro is told “Don’t look back” as she goes away from the bath house. Unlike Lot’s wife, she manages this simple task. Not looking back is very important for most people. Regrets can bog a person down in depression and guilt, which makes moving forward through life really tough. My husband and I try not to indulge in it too much, even though we both wish we could have met sooner. The scary part is, there’s a chance we could have met up decades before we did. But that would mean such a big change in our lives, where our children come into it, that it’s not worth it. I wouldn’t trade my daughter and son for anything in existence, even with all the tears and heartaches involved. Characters, however, need to look back sometimes. Delivering back story is a necessary evil of writing fiction. Without creating an info dump, or making the character look stupid for having to be told things he or she should already know, the writer needs to explain about the family curse on the beautiful diamond ring which was stolen during the rush of English citizens to get out of France and then turned up in a pawn shop and purchased by the hero who is engaged to the heiress who should by rights have the ring in her possession. I do my best to bring up the facts in a painless way, usually through conversation between characters. In Main Course, the twins talk about the fact that their father is against his eldest son joining the army, and that he has been out of London for a very long time pursuing a female person in the country. If you didn’t read Appetizer in the Regency Banquet series, then you would still know why Roland has to switch identities with his twin, Bernard, and that the beautiful Aunt Vivienne is providing companionship to Mr. Curtis. Also they discuss the fact that sister Ellen is married and not able to see through their plan. This is a process I know I can always learn to do better. There are great articles available to help any writer. Should you write a flashback scene? What is it about Lot’s wife? You can’t move forward without looking back. Pretty much, a fictional character who doesn’t look back is either amnesiac or one dimensional. So learn how to do backstory before you do anything else. But for yourself, keep your mental eyes forward unless you are remembering something you want to write about. Then, it’s all good. Thanks for reading, I’ll be back Sunday, probably late because I will be attending my first Writers’ Convention, California Dreamin’. #excitedbeyondwords

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